Back on the job…

So I’m back… It’s been awhile but you know, you run out of ideas and then BOOM! You remember you have a blog and think of other things to write.

Now, the main reason I ran out of things to write about is mostly because of the fact that I’m single. It’s been over a year since I was in an actual relationship, and I’ve grown to realize that in order for you to be happy, you have to be able to be happy alone. Make your life yours, I mean you only have one life to live. 

I’m drawing a blank, but this won’t be the last post. I promise you on that.

Do I Look Okay?

Now don’t get me wrong, we all love the beautiful people… But just because they look good, does not mean they are good. Now for me, I’d love a blonde with blue eyes, or even a redhead with some emerald looking eyes, but if they look as gorgeous as I see them, they may be rotten on the inside.
I’m not telling you all to date uglier people, I’m saying don’t try to go for someone prettier than you… Personality does count, along with how attractive they are to YOU.

Moving On In…

Now different people have different opinions on when to move in together, some move in after only months, others after marriage… Me? I would personally wait and see how long we last first, then spend a few nights together, while I slowly see her stuff move in and then we’re living together…wait what?! She moved in?! Well damn.

Now, I think the right thing to do, granted you both work, is split bills half way, that way money is there for other things, like strip clubs and such…

Living together before marriage helps A LOT, it gives you an idea of what the rest of your life with them will look like.

Not much to really say here myself since I’ve never lasted long enough to move in with someone lol.

La Mour out!

What’s The 3-Day Rule?

Now, with today’s tech and how impatient people are now, the 3-day rule has become the 3-hour rule.

Instead of the 3 days to hear from someone about a 2nd date, or even just to say thanks for today, it’s turned into waiting for the best opportunity that same night to talk to the person you just went on a date with.

So here’s a tip for everyone: Guys, that same night you had th…e date, text the girl that you had a great time, and that you hope you both see each other again. If she doesn’t answer then at least you tried. If she does, then plan date two as soon as you can!
Girls, if he doesn’t text you that night, don’t think he forgot about you, you can text him back or wait until morning. If he doesn’t text back, move on, you don’t need him. If he does, allow him to make a suggestion for a second date.

If all went well, then enjoy date two… try and go for the kiss in that one 😉

Dancing With The Stars… No I Mean The Space Ones

Now gentlemen, not all ladies like romance, but you can at least buy a rose every once in awhile.

Ok guys, you met a girl or you know a girl and you like her. You find out she like all that romantic stuff, what do you do? Most of you, nothing; but for others, you try to be the most romantic guy ever.

It’s not hard though, one thing you can do, text her good morning, or text her in the middle of your work shift and say something like “hey there beautiful, thought I’d let you know you’re on my mind. Talk to you later.” For most girls, that will make their day 10x better. Also, learn to cook, if you live alone, you can invite your partner over show them how you cook, get some wine, light a few candles… and BOOM! goes the dynamite.

Ladies, be romantic as well. Some men like it, makes them feel great.

A night out, walk through old town, it’s a bit chilly, you give your coat to her. She nudges you, you hold her hand. The night goes on and before you go off, you look into each others eyes, hold her in your arms, slight peck on her forehead, then you grab her chin, lift her head up and kiss her under the starry night sky.

Gossip Girls? There’s A Show About Them?

This one is plain and simple, ignore the people who are talking crap, and if you’re the one causing it? SHUT IT!

You are happy with who you are, if there is something your partner is hiding, it will come out. It will always come out.

People, whether you think that person is wrong for your friend, or you don’t like your ex’s new partner, keep it to yourself… unless you have proof and know for a fact that they are bad.

Gossip is annoying and don’t go off telling others, you are not in that relationship and you don’t need to be.

Family… You Know The Ones Who Raised You.

Now, I don’t have to worry about my family, I live with a butler in a mansion just outside the city… Shh.

Your family is important, and if you just decided to bring your new partner to meet them… be ready to get embarrassed.
THAT’S RIGHT FOLKS!!! those baby pictures you thought you burned because you didn’t want people to think you were an odd child, will miraculously turn up.

Before that though, let’s talk about what to do when introducing, or meeting, the parents. Guys, what makes you nervous about meeting mom and dad? Meeting dad. Come on, you’re with his little girl. He knows how you may be, because he was your age once too. He wants what’s best for her, and you better damn show him you’re worth her hand…after he sees you’re a good guy, you’re in, invite him to beer, or buy him a 12 pack (24 if you join him).

Girls! who do you have to worry about? it varies, sometimes no one, other times, it’s mom (my case is my mom, that woman will rarely crack a smile when she meets my girls). Why’s that? Cause she wants a woman who will take care of her son just like she did or better. My mom states that I’ll starve with the type of girls I tend to date, but that’s cause she was raised differently…

With parents be yourself, but with a twist, use proper words, dress nicely, and know that they will be judging you the whole time you’re there…and don’t expect them to tell you soo soon that they like you, also don’t trust your partner if they tell you they like you, because they could just be trying to make you feel better… You’ll know when they like you, it’s intuition.

F-R-I-E-N-D-S… No, Not The Show

You have them, they have them, and sometimes you have the same ones, but the matter of the fact is they are there.

Now we know that it’s only two people in an actual relationship, but face the fact, you will see your friends and your partners friends every once in awhile. Make sure you be yourself, don’t be quiet, try to find common ground with at least one of them. Tell your friends to be themselves too, even if your friend is a pain in the ass and cracks jokes about everything… your date may like that.
Just make sure they don’t fall for your friends more than you.

If your friends have something bad to say about the person you’re dating, let it slide, unless you’ve been dating for a long time then tell them to shove off. It’s your relationship not theirs.

What Are My Benefits?

Pokémon!! Sorry, I mean, friends with benefits. Yea, cause they’re the same thing and what not …

FWBs, this really isn’t a relationship topic but it’s an important topic. Not many people have a booty call, but if you do, just be carful. There are certain good things and certain bad things with this sort of relationship.

One side of the fling may start to get feelings. Think Howard from Big Bang theory when he was “dumped” by his FWB. Sometimes it can turn into a relationship and you both enjoy it, other times someone catches feelings and the other one is like “well, time to get trade this one for better Pokémon.” If you ever had one, and you’re dating someone now or are interested in a person, get rid of the FWB, it will screw everything up, especially if the person you were screwing with liked you and wanted more than just sex.

Declaration of (Your) Independence

You are you, this is true.

You do not need a relationship to be happy!! What the opposite sex is attracted to is someone who can manage life alone without needing a partner in their lives.

The relationship is just a formality of two people who really like each. Being in a relationship is nice, but if one person in that relationship feels like they NEED to be in that relationship, then it won’t work. Why? because then all they’ll want to do is make the relationship work to the point where they fail at it.

Don’t depend on another person to make you happy. Be happy on your own and someone will appear next to you to be happy too.

Be you, be strong, and show the world you don’t need someone, but you wouldn’t mind having someone on your side (that also has the same mind).